The age today of this gentleman is currently 75 to 85 years, he has done government jobs and those who have moved from a rural environment to cities, I consider that generation to be a struggling Generation, whose details are as follows
The father used to do ancestral business in the villages and in spite of very low income enabled the children of this generation to go to the cities for higher education by getting them through primary and high school education. At first, they struggled to live in the cities for studies, to meet the expenses of food, quarters, and college. Some students completed their college education at the expense of their father’s earnings and some took education loans.
At that time college was also limited and students getting college education were also fewer in number. Therefore, according to the qualification they used to get engineering, medical or professional education and after that got a government job.
After starting the job, the exercise of settling down started. In most cases, our parents had done our child marriage. Therefore, after making a cow, the wife also came to the city from Saab. In those days, the junior engineer used to get 200 rupees per month and the teacher got about 100 rupees. From that salary, life started with expenses on house rent, etc. Then there was the burden of raising the children. As the children grew up, their education was arranged accordingly. Provided good education to the children by cutting their own expenses so that they too can go to college, get an education and live a better life on their own.
After that, due to higher education, the children got good jobs and started living in other cities. Due to good jobs, marriage relations were formed with the people of the rich section of society.
The people of this generation retired after the passage of time and started living in the same place where they got their age. But the boy pays more attention to the mother-in-law, keeping his distance from the parents, falling into the trap of the girl of the upper class. Parents i.e. this generation are sad from the inside seeing all this, but they are satisfied while telling the good salary of their son in front of people. Very few cases are found that the children of the struggle with which this generation faced, return to serve the same category.
But let me tell you the story of a familiar priestly family. The boy’s father belonged to the village and in the village, he completed his education till Class 10th. But after that father passed away. Mother saw the son was promising, so she came to Jodhpur with the child.
And got the boy’s medical education (MBBS) by renting the house. The son got a government job. After some years he got married to a village girl as per his mother’s wish. Those who had come from village to city from Jodhpur itself. Then the doctor went to America and started medical practice there. Due to the good package, he settled there and resigned from the government job in Jodhpur. Later, the mother was taken to America with her. After some time Mataji did not feel like being there and shifted to Jodhpur as per her wish. Built a house for the mother in Jodhpur and arranged for her car, driver, and maid in Jodhpur. Whose payment the doctor used to do from America. Took complete care of Mataji and came again and again from America and served Mataji till the end of time. That Mataji continued to bless her wholeheartedly. What a beautiful example my fellow doctor set.
-Er. Tarachand
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