A husband went to Kabir for satsang. He was unhappy with his married life. After his welcome by Kabir, the person asked “My dear God, what is the secret of a happy married life?”
Seeing the despairing face and gesture of the said person, Kabir understood that he does not get along well with his wife. Kabir by saying “I will be explaining” went inside the house. After a while Kabir returned with the yarn from inside and sat in front of that person and started solving it. After some time Kabir called out to his wife “There is a great darkness here. The yarn does not unravel, just keep the lamp.” Kabir’s wife lit a lamp and kept it quietly. The person wondered whether Kabir has become blind, that he feels darkness even in the light of the sun.
And How is his wife too, who kept the lamp lit silently without protesting.
After this Kabir’s wife brought milk in two glasses, put one in front of that person and gave the other to Kabir.
Both started drinking milk. Then after a while, Kabir’s wife came again and started asking him, “I hope sweetness is not less in the milk.” Kabir said “No, in fact it’s too sweet.” and then he drank the milk.
The man was again surprised that there was no sweetness in the milk at all. Rather salt was poured in place of sugar.
After this, this man said with annoyance – Maharaj if you can’t answer my question, so shall I go?
Kabir said – Hey brother, I have already explained it to you, if you didn’t understand, let me explain it to you?
For a happy household life, it is necessary to make the members friendly to yourself and also to be family friendly. You can make your wife and children polite, obedient but you should also show affection and forgiveness everywhere in your life. All household life can be successful.
The person understood everything and happily returned home.
Note: This topic will be a guide for those couples who, after two years of marriage, due to mutual disputes, want to divorce.
Today in metro cities, on an average 50 divorce cases are being filed in the courts every day.
-Er. Tarachand
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